We have had to accept significant changes in our lives, and find new ways to live. And we have. It is incredible to see how quickly and efficiently we have been able to adapt. Our School leaders and teachers created new ways to communicate, connect and learn. Our children were amazing in their ability to cope without their teachers and friends close by. Businesses and services pivoted overnight to continue providing new ways to reach us. It was not easy, but in many ways, we have shown how we can flourish in tough times.

Along with these rapid changes in our lifestyles, have come shifts in attitudes and opinions. Globally, we saw more voters than ever swing a change of government in the US, amidst times of social upheaval. Locally, many have become more aware and critical of government policies towards public health, policing and the environment. In your own home, there are new ways of thinking and living that you have developed to respond to the challenges of this year.

In a stormy year, the safe havens we have relied upon are our own homes and our school.

Personally, I have been encouraged to see how my neighbours have reached out to each other and found new ways to communicate, check in and protect each other, adapt and solve problems. We have become closer, more trusting and more able to rely on each other. I have appreciated living and working at a different pace. My family has played more, explored the Merri creek, ridden our bikes, climbed the trees, spotted possums and lizards and new birds. We read more books and played more games as a family. We practiced cooking new foods together.

We now have a chance now to think about what we have learned from the challenges of this year and build this learning into how we can continue to live even better lives in future. Here’s how… During the summer holidays, make a time for your family to relax and reflect and talk about the year just past.

Ask all the members of your family what they have learned this year. Was it a new skill, a new way of thinking about themselves or the family? Did they appreciate something about the home or family? What have they changed, or done differently? I have a new appreciation for the beautiful natural landscapes close to my house. I have a stronger bond with my neighbours. I have enjoyed my family creating our own entertainment. I have loved slowing down and taking time to be able to enjoy our family, our home and our friends.

How can these things be incorporated into their lives? Write down specific ways these new attitudes or values or behaviours will continue to constantly enrich their lives. As a family, we will continue to explore our local neighbourhood on bike, on foot and with friends.

Post these reflections and intentions up somewhere in your home, to remind you of how your family has grown and to prompt you to keep acting in ways that make us stronger and closer.

Tim Battersby - School Counsellor